Marriage problem help???

I have a lover.He is searching for a job.My parents are looking for a bride groom for me but I can't marry anyone else because we were in love for three years.My parents dont appreciate our love and doesn't allow us to marry.If I marry with the other guy he threatens me that he will cut my head and my wouldbe's head and then he would die.That paradesi is lazy and doesn't want to study or work.If you have any solution please give boo...booo...hooo..booo.hooo.boo.hoo.ooo waaaw.......................to be contd......???